Yes, I Am A Flight Attendant, But Here Are 5 Things I Am Not

There are many stereotypes about flight attendants. Here are a few that I are untrue about me:

  1. A Glorified Waitress – No I am not your waitress/bartender at 35,000 feet. My main job is to get you safely from point A to point B. The Diet Cokes and pretzels are extra. I am on this plane to help you if there is an emergency.img_8184
  2. Baggage Handler – Helping you with your overweight bag is not part of my job. You may think it is just one bag but should something happen to me while putting your bag up I will not be able to work. That means I may not be able to pay my bills. If you can’t lift your bag then I will be more than happy to check it for you.
  3. Babysitter/Nanny – If you would like someone else to watch your child while you travel then bring a nanny with you. I am not responsible for feeding your child, entertaining them, or keeping them out of trouble.
  4. Therapist – Yes we may be stuck in a metal tube for an extended amount of time but I’m not your bartender who will listen to all of your troubles nor your therapist. I’ll ask you how your day is going or where you may be heading but I can’t solve your life problems.
  5. Travel Guide – Yes I travel a lot for a living but that doesn’t mean I have been everywhere. I can’t tell you all the great hot spots and activities. I may have never been to that city and Google probably makes a better travel guide than I do.


Crazy Stories: Cold Sandwich

I always get asked about crazies stories I have experienced and this one might have to be the craziest so far. Here’s how it goes…..

*I’m walking down the aisle*
Passenger 1: Ma’am! Ma’am!
Me: Yes?
Passenger 1: *Frantically pointing at the gentleman across the aisle*
Passenger 2: *Holding a lighter under a foil wrapped sandwich*
Me: Sir, what are you doing?!
Passenger 2: Heating up my sandwich.
Me: I’m going to need to take that. *Puts hand out to take lighter*
Passenger 2: *Puzzled look*
Me: Sir please give me the lighter.
Passenger 2: * Hands over the lighter* But I don’t want to eat a cold sandwich.
Me: Do I need to explain to you why you cannot have an open flame on an airplane?
Passenger 2: *Thinking about saying yes but doesn’t want to say anything*
Me: You can get this (lighter) back when we land.

I don’t know why this guy thought it was a good idea to try and heat up a sandwich mid-flight but he is the only person so far that has tried. And before you ask, yes you can bring a lighter onboard an aircraft. It just needs to fit very specific qualifications by the FAA.

Don’t be THAT person: Clothes Edition 

The aisle on the plane is not a runway but by the way some people dress you wouldn’t know the difference. The best thing to do is dress in layers. Most airports and planes tend to be on the colder side so with layers you can add and take off layers as need.

I have seen a girl wearing sweatpants and a Calvin Klein sports bra as her “top”. I have seen a lady in just a bikini at the check in counter. Both of these would not be appropriate travel attire in my opinion. Think of a nice restaurant when traveling. No shirt, no shoes, no service.

Flying was once a classy affair. Now people take no pride in what their wear in public. Most people won’t care what you wear at home but when I’m getting my coffee or traveling I would rather not see your boobs hanging out all over the place.

Don’t be THAT person…

Crazy Stories: Passenger Or Pilot?

Weather is something that no matter how hard we try, we cannot control. We were flying to New York City but there were high winds that made it impossible to land safely at LaGuardia. We were in a holding pattern (pretty much flying in circles) over Raleigh, North Carolina. Of course planes aren’t magic and there is only a limited amount of fuel on board. We reached that point where we had to land so the Captain comes over the PA to make an announcement.

15894950_653753908163099_6911711179209409962_nCaptain: Ladies and Gentlemen we will be landing in Raleigh/Durham airport shortly. Due to the high winds we have been circling and are now low on fuel. Once we land, we fill refuel and then be back on our way to New York.
*Passenger in 3C rings his call light*
Passenger: Miss!
Me: Yes?
Passenger: Why are landing in Raleigh?! I need to get to New York!
Me: As the captain has just stated, we are going to be refueling and then be back in our way.
Passenger: But why?!
Me: Sir, at this point we have two options. One. We can continue to circle because it’s not safe to land in New York, run out of fuel, and fall out of the sky. Or two. Land safely in Raleigh, refuel, and then be back on our merry way.
Passenger: Oh! We can land in Raleigh!
Me: Okay, I’ll let the Captain know you said it’s okay for us to land in Raleigh.
*Passenger goes back to doing whatever we has doing*

We land safely in Raleigh and few passengers decide to get off and stay there instead. Ground staff refuels the plane and we get back on our way to LGA. The winds died down enough for the tower to give us the okay to land. There were still some winds so it was a bit of a bumpy landing but we made it there safely.

Oh Baby: Traveling With An Infant

I’m at that age where many of my friends are settling down and having kids. Lately these friends have been asking me what they should do when traveling with their little one. Here are a few tips to help lessen the stress of traveling with your bundle of joy.

  1. Check with your airlines to be sure no additional steps are required. Whether it is checking a car seat, stroller, or having the right documentation for a lap child. You don’t want to show up at the airport and be surprised that you are missing important documentation or haven’t allowed enough time for the additional process.
  2. It is a hit or miss game when traveling with your little one for the first time. You just never know how your baby will react. One flight they may be the perfect angel and the next flight they’ll be screaming the entire flight for reasons unknown. Just know that babies cry sometimes, it’s what they do. Don’t let anyone make you feel like you are a bad parent just because your child is crying. Do your best to sooth your child. As long as your are trying it shows you are making some sort of effort and that is appreciated (at least my this particular passenger).
  3. Be prepared. Make sure you have enough diapers as most airlines/airports may not carry any. Have snacks, milk, toys, and a blanket for the flight. It is not the responsibility of the airline to feed and care for your child.
  4. Be aware of what’s going on around you. If the plane is boarding, don’t stand in the aisle with your baby. When you slow up the boarding process it delays the departure of the flight. You also do not want to get in the way of the flight attendants. The aisle is their work space and they will be going up and down the aisle for their meal/beverage services and answering call lights.
  5. The flight attendants are NOT your hired nanny. Their job is to get you and your family safely from point A to point B. It is not their job to watch your child for the entirety of the flight. They can assist you but when you try to pawn your child off to them, they can no longer do their job effectively. Also in the unlikely event of an emergency the plane will be short one flight attendant as now their responsibility is YOUR child and not the safety of the rest of the passengers on the flight.

Traveling with a child is not the easiest task. Hope these 5 tips will help you on your next trip with your little one.

My 15 Favorite Travel Movies

There are a few movies that will give me the travel bug every time I watch them. By the end of the movie I’m wanting to pack my bags and be on my way to the airport. Here are my favorite movies that make me want to travel:

  1. Catch Me If You Can – A movie about travel AND has Leo…. Of course it has to make my list. I also like that it’s based on a true story.
  2. Up – I wish I could travel the world with my pup.
  3. Eat Pray Love – I feel like this is almost a given.
  4. Airplane – This movie always makes me laugh (even more now that I’m a flight attendant)
  5. Eurotrip – This makes me want to backpack around Europe with my friends because Scotty doesn’t know.
  6. The Bucket List – This movie made me start my own bucket list
  7. Love Actually – One of my favorite holiday movies
  8. The Holiday – Another holiday movie on my favorites list
  9. The Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants – I love sharing travel stories with my friends
  10. Moana – This movie reminds me of home.
  11. Spy – It is an action movie but it makes me want to travel around Europe.
  12. Harry Potter – I want to fly to England and see if I can find the real Diagon Alley, walk through platform 9 3/4, and hopefully find Hogwarts castle.
  13. The Hangover – This movies makes me want to pack my bag and jump on a plane to go party with my friends.
  14. Lost In Translation – Because I love making friends when I travel.
  15. The Chipmunk Adventure – This was one of my favorite movies as a kid. It made me want to race around the world in a hot air balloon.

What movies make you want to travel?

24 Things That Need To Be On Your Bucket List

The Bucket List! The list things you want to do or accomplish before you “kick the bucket”. For me it is the ultimate to do list that never ends as I keep finding things to add to it. Here are the 24 things I think everyone should consider having on their bucket list.

  1. Eat a spam musubi in Hawaii
  2. Go to the Blue Lagoon in Iceland
  3. Walk the Vegas strip
  4. Add to the gum wall in Seattle
  5. Give an elephant a bath in Thailand
  6. Make a wish in the Trevi Fountain
  7. Float in the Dead Sea
  8. Fly first class on a long haul with lay flat beds
  9. Walk through Central Park in New York City
  10. Walk the Hollywood Walk of Fame
  11. Swim with the pigs in the Bahamas
  12. Bathe in a Japanese onsen
  13. See the Northern Lights
  14. Walk Across Abbey Road
  15. Walk the Great Wall of China
  16. See the Mona Lisa at the Louvre
  17. Have a beer at Oktoberfest
  18. Watch the Sunset in Santorini
  19. Kiss the Blarney Stone
  20. Ride a Gondola
  21. Ski the Swiss Alps
  22. Attend the Kentucky Derby
  23. Book a trip on a whim
  24. Take a staycation

Add all 24 or just a few but these are the few things I would love to experience before I kick the bucket.

Travel Smart: Going From Point A To Point B

When booking a flight sometimes a direct route is not an option or going through another city is cheaper. If you are making connections be aware of the time you have between flights and what airport you will be traveling through.

It’s good to have enough time to get from one flight to another. I recommend having at least an hour (if not more) between flights. This gives you a contingency in the event a small delay happens. It will also save you from having to sprint from gate to gate in an attempt to make your next flight.

Think about the airports you are traveling through. Some airports are easier to navigate than others. You may want to research the airport where you will make your connection. Some have a train to get you between terminals and others you may need to go for it on foot. Larger hub cities will have larger airports. If you are switching between airline carriers you may also need to go another terminal which can also take time.

Malibu, California: Malibu Cafe

Took my mom here for lunch and had a nice little time. The food and drinks seem a little overpriced but were very delicious. I am a big fan of the frose (reminds me of NYC a little). I had the BBQ Chicken Sandwich with Fries and for dessert we split the S’mores Cake. The cake was delicious and I wish I could have had 3 pieces for my entire meal. The staff is nice and helpful.

The scenery is just adorable and I love the little games they have around like corn hole, giant jenga, and giant chess. They have a few different areas where you can hang out and relax with a cocktail. This would be a great location if you are looking for a venue for an upcoming event.


Glendale, California: The Nail’ery & Co

img_2743This place is awesome! I drive the 45 mins to get here because I love their service and the services offered.

The salon is clean and the staff is nice and open to answering any questions. The chairs are comfortable and I like the decor and music.

I have been here twice and both times were great! I like to get the unicorn polish which I can’t find at many salon at the same rate as The Nail’ery & Co. Their color options for gel is amazing and I often have difficulty picking a color. Both times Kelly has done my gel mani and it turned out perfect. No chipping in the 3 weeks between manis.

I like that they offer different drink choices including coffee, tea, water, juice, and MIMOSAs! It adds a little touch that you don’t find at other places.

I will definitely continue to come here!